Not me kneeling for a first….

Why does this Daddy/Princess do it for him?

I ask Colin about the reason he is a Daddy Dom and what does it for him. I know he is not a sicko who is wishing that i was younger. Whilst this is an age play scenario when it turns sexual it is very much a consensual adult scenario.

Later in life he realised he felt his happiest when caring for people, he felt he had a purpose, a need to love and care for people. That is his kink. He thrives on being wanted and needed which we all have in some way or another.

The Daddy Dom normally meets “Littles” who are grown women who need the caring and protective “Daddy” side. Under the right Daddy they allow themselves to age regress and “play”. This they can only do this with a man they feel safe enough to let go with – a time when they can just forget about all the worries and stresses that life can bring. Many of these women have high powered jobs in real life and very hectic and busy lives. Being a little to them is being able to find solace in a colouring book, playing with dolls or maybe just watching cartoons on the sofa.

I explain to Colin that this is totally new to me, yes i have in the past called a man who i have sex with “Daddy” but this is totally different to what he does. I am a submissive female who is looking for a Dom. He tells me that he is a Dom but a daddy as well.

“Give it a go…just try, relax and let me look after you, we will have some fun”

He is a lovely person. He makes me feel good about myself and he does make me laugh. Maybe i should just give it a go. See what this is all about.

As we leave the resturant i notice that my shoelace is undone…. now lets just see…. so i turn and whisper to Colin

“Daddy my shoe lace is undone”

The look on his face when i say this, is like i have given him the best blow job of his life…. he kneels straight down onto the floor in the middle of the resturant and ties my lace as the waiter looks over and smirks.

Ok let’s give this a go.

Save me…

Colin is very much like what he is on the phone. Full of life and energy and you cant help but feel happy around him. When I first walk in to meet him I can tell he is instantly attracted to me. He isn’t shy in saying how wonderful and attractive I am and puts me at ease straight away. I think he can tell I am nervous as he seems to be just talking like a normal guy.

We have met in a nice restaurant and he asks what I would like to drink, I dont even ask if i am “allowed” alcohol and order a large wine anyway. He does not drink so he orders a soft drink and we take a look at the menu.

“Princess I would really like it if you would let me pick something for you to eat?”

Ok, that i quite like. A dominant trait so i let him decide. Over comes the young and quite attractive waiter.

“I would like the chicken Pasta, and Princess would like…”

Oh fuck. I blush bright red and the waiter looks at me like he has walked into some kind of hidden camera show. Please do not let Colin ask to see a children’s menu, or ask for a colouring in set. I find myself sliding into my chair whilst Colin still peruses the menu, I am sliding further and further down into the chair wishing the ground would just eat me up when he finally decides on the Risotto… fine great, not my favourite but can we just order it and let this poor waiter leave……

“Is that ok for My princess??”

Well if the waiter was thinking that he just overhead wrong the first time he has no uncertainty now as he looks at me… I say yes that is fine, Thank you.

Thank you what…………

Oh you are not being serious……..

The waiter and Colin both just look at me, there is a smirk on the waiters face which is growing and I am sure I see him raise his eyebrows…

Its ok Jodie, maybe you are just out with your dad and still haven’t grown out of the fact you call him “Daddy” people must do it all the time !! just say it…… just swallow the massive lump in your throat and say it.

My hands are sweating and it feels like time has stood still. And i blurt it out.

“Thank you Daddy”

Oh dear god. The embarrassment has made my blushes turn to a deep purple. I grab the wine and take a massive gulp.

Can we make that a bottle please?

It’s going to be a long night.

Daddy Rules

“Please have a read through Princess and let me know what you think !”

Think?? I am totally gobsmacked with what I read. Part of me doesn’t know whether to laugh, or throw up.

1. Always refer to each other as Daddy and Princess. – Ok deep breath Jodie. You have done this before. You can do it again…..
2. Daddy will only have one Princess/Sub. Princess will have only one Daddy/Dom. – Is he saying that I need to execute my actual “dad” this i feel at this point I may need to clarify….
3. Daddy wont sleep with anyone else apart from his wife.
4. His Princess wont partake in any sexual act or kissing with anyone else.
5. Daddy will not allow other people to touch her/ sexually pleasure her without prior discussion. – Doesn’t this contradict number 4??
6. Daddy will step in if he feels his Princess is putting herself in dangerous situations. – Im guessing we wont be going sky diving anytime soon then..
7. Princess says whenever she is leaving and arrives anywhere. – Anywhere?! that alone sounds like a full time job.
8. Princess and Daddy are to share their day/night time routines. – I have no idea what this even means!
9. Neither Princess or Daddy are to talk to each other in a disrespectful way or swear at each other, ever – i’m guessing the “ever” means thats is a fucking no go…
10. If Daddy or Princess have an issue they should request “table time” setting a time to talk freely ideally in person – Now this makes sense and i actually approve …hoorah!
11. Daddy is allowed to demand to see what he owns at any time. -At anytime?? in the middle of starbucks he is expecting me to drop my pants??
12. No pictures are to be posted on social media or Fetlife without both our consents – *Deletes the tit shot i had pending

Personal Care

1. Princess keeps Daddy’s pussy neatly trimmed at all times, Daddy is to keep clean and smooth shaven too.
2. Princess is to eat well and Daddy will check that you have eaten. – Another Full time Job!

Bedtimes

1. Bed time will be varied but daddy will always try to put Princess to bed – Is that with or without hot chocolate??
2. Princess tells Daddy whether she would like play or just snuggles and cuddles to sleep. – Is this where we get into endless rounds of eye spy??
3. Nighty Nights will be extensive but following within the rules of play or just cuddles and snuggles to sleep.
4. No sleeping without saying good night to each other properly.
5. We must never go to bed on an argument – at this point the only argument I can see is its time to go to sleep and stop playing games!!

Punishment

1. Discipline will be administered when necessary and stored in the “Naughty Little girl bank”

Holy fucking christ. Where are the parts about butt plugs, clamps… canes?? this is not what i am used to. This is not a bit of me!

Im meeting him in the morning. Part of me is telling me to run for the hills. the other part is intrigued as to what this is all about…… let me just meet him and see.

Full On….

I decide to give Colin a chance and say that i will meet him for Coffee. Already the man has turned into a Duracell Bunny…. I have just arrived home after our first telephone conversation and I look down and see i have seven messages. Seven.

“Safe Journey Princess xxxxx”

“Lovely Chatting xxxxxx”

“Looked again at your pictures, you are so beautiful xxxxx”

“I am going to make you so happy xxxx”

“Please let me know when you are home safe xxxxx”

“Are you home safe?? xxxx”

“Princess? xx”

Are you actually shitting me??. Seven messages? This man i have had one conversation with. Although i am smiling a bit that he thinks that I am beautiful. I haven’t been told that for a very long time. I suppose i should just be happy he is happy and excited. That is a good thing surely….

“Princess??? xx”

Oh for fuck sake. I contemplate telling him to calm the fuck down but decide against it. So i just tell him I am home safe.

“Phew! I just like to know you are safe, it is because I care, its one of the things I would like you to do for me xxx”

That is a very good point, what is his expectations and needs in this. I ask him and he offers to comply them together and email them over. What later arrives in my inbox is something that even shocks me…

Daddy Is back

My god. This man can talk.

Colin is a typical Londoner. With the accent to match. A Hackney boy through and through. But there is something about him. The man is so full of life and energy. I can hardly get a word in edgeways!

He talks about his passion for music, his zest for life and is it contagious. I like to think I am a positive person but this guy takes things to a totally new level. I find myself laughing and smiling as he talks AT me for the whole hour drive.

Let’s get down to the reason we are here…. Kink.

Straight away he says “Listen to me Princess”

Oh Princess……… here we go again!

“I’m looking for something much longer term. I’m not looking for just meets for play either. I want vanilla dates too. Holding hands, laughing together, going for coffee and making memories. I would like a sub I can help, guide and nurture. I want her grow in confidence and obviously gain new experiences. I’ll shower you with attention if required. I’ll ask about your day, when you leave, arrive etc. I will care and fully protect very much. Making you feel special is a speciality of mine. Showering you with attention and letting you know in no uncertain terms I fully care for you.
I’d certainly say I’m more of a Daddy Dom. I enjoy all the caring, snuggles n cuddles side. But that said, I’m also a Dom and in play, you’ll certainly know who’s in charge young lady when that bedroom door closes there is a different side to me.”

This sounds nice enough, who doesn’t want all of those things. I mean, i’m not used to going out and “holding hands” that is something i have not experienced with a Dom. I think if i had taken Harrys hand and “snuggled” into him i think i may have been made to sleep on the floor! but I like all those things in the Vanilla world so why not enjoy them and being punished!

I’m still cautious with trying all this again, so someone who is caring may exactly be what i need, maybe i just need to try this way. See how it suits me. I decide to meet him, I mean its only a coffee….

Guess Who Is Back….

I am back in the game!

Advert placed on the kinky classified section of Fetlife and I am ready to go. I met Harry I am sure I can at least try to meet someone else … but this time I know exactly what I want.

One thing I have learnt is a lot of people on this site “play” at being kinky… it may just be that they just complete this all online or that they just hide behind the persona that because they like to be in charge and think they are “the boss” this makes them dominant. It really doesn’t! I cannot be dealing with any of that. I want this for real…. ok, I may have been too specific wanting him to have a beard….. but don’t ask… don’t get!

Within a few hours I have received quite a few messages. One guy asks if he can meet me to “Rape” me… now, to everyone else this would probably scare the life out of them. I like the way he started his message off with a nice cheery “Good Morning” and then proceeded straight to the jugular. It actually made me smile. Although maybe I should take the rough/rape play section off of my profile!

I read through my responses and they are just all so dull, they haven’t taken any time to write anything apart from “hey you are cute” or other 4/5 word messages. I am looking for a man who I want to know about and get to learn.. I don’t have time to read through short pointless messages. At least make some effort!

Then I come to it, a message with depth, warmth and someone who has genuinely read what i am looking for. Colin is a Dom who lives a few towns away. He has done this with submissives before and although couldn’t be further from the beard seems like a kind and genuine person.

Ahh, there is one slight problem. He is a “Daddy Dom” … this is a very surreal type of dominant. I am not totally sure about how it all works so he briefly explains that he is a Dominant. He expects his submissive to respect him and has lots of kinky needs… but he has a more caring approach about it all. I don’t really get why the word “daddy” is used! he ticks lots of boxes. Let’s give this a go. I may as well chat with him on the phone to start.